Your attendees deserve better than random pairings.

Valence is a matching engine for speed dating events. Pre-event surveys, values-based pairing, and event-night tools — so your attendees actually want to come back.

Pre-event surveys

Attendees complete a five-minute survey on their phone before the event. Values, preferences, dealbreakers — captured before anyone walks in the door.

Values-based matching

The algorithm pairs people by faith, lifestyle, communication style, and family goals. Three rounds of intentional pairings per event.

Event-night tools

QR check-in, real-time match release, conversation starters, and post-event contact sharing. One dashboard for the whole night.

Built for faith communities, alumni networks, and anyone running events where matching matters.